True story, not my own:
So, last night my friend and her kids were watching
Meerkat Manor on animal planet and it seems the Meer's were
getting it on doing it getting jiggy mating. My friend tells me that her 14 year old was saying, "Oh my gosh" and laughing. Her 9 year old boys didn't understand what was funny. (I have been telling her it is TIME to let the boys in on this little secret.) Today whilst on the way to baseball they are having a conversation in the car with their dad about why anyone would name their son "Taylor" since that is a
girl's name. One of the boys says, "I bet the baby was born and they named it Taylor and then later found out that it was a boy and it was too late." Their dad said, "You are kidding right? You know that they can tell right away if it is a boy or a girl. (here's where the teachable moment, in my opinion goes down the drain) Boys have a penis and...girls don't." Many of you might see that as perfectly acceptable use of the teachable moment. My comment was, "You didn't even say, vulva or vagina or name it AT all? You called it "don't"? Like boys have this thing called a penis and girls...well, they just
don't?"
Fast forward-->
Boy: "Oh come on baby."
Girl: "Don't."
Boy: "Yep, that's what I love to hear."
Girl: "I said don't"
Boy: "Oh I heard you, my dad told me all about don't. I know a lot, I watched the
Meerkats go at it."
Remember,
internets, teaching moments are
EVERYWHERE, this sex talk thing doesn't have to be all weird and embarrassing. The way you handle this conversation (or lack of it) really does effect the attitudes that your children will carry with them about sex. Why have we allowed society to teach that sex is dirty and wrong,
but that you should save it for the one you love?
How did you find out about the birds and the bees? What age do you think is the best age to have the talk with your children?
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